Friday, June 27, 2014

Debates and face saving sessions

1094: 

It’s hard to get a debate going on Animal Rights.  We may be busting to tell people everything we know about the horrors of animal abuse, but others hold strong views too, so we need to respect their sovereignty of opinion, even when we reckon they’re of the wrong opinion.  All opinion-holders should be free to say their piece, otherwise we lose our freedom-of-speech.
           
There should be clear channels for airing our views, without fear of being attacked or cut down before we’ve finished speaking.  If, for example, we’re debating the use of animals, we’re bound to touch on the use of animal products ... which will bring us to eggs and milk and the cruelty behind their production.  Whether we’re discussing with friends or speaking to an audience of strangers, there’s no point in jumping the gun, coming on too strong, coming in too quickly, creating a separation where none’s necessary, with the sort of statement that says  “I’m making-it-clear-where-I-stand”.  First alarm bells - there’s an extra-certainty in the voice. Then both voice and message get a bit primal, coming across as a fear-of-losing-the-argument.  Once there’s the slightest whiff of fear in the room, it’s easily sensed. It’s the old familiar smell of fear. ‘I am being attacked’. I am being cut down. Second alarm bells - as soon as we realise we’re no longer on common ground and things dangerously close to getting personal.

Just at this precise moment it’s make of break. And if there’s just the teensiest bit of aggro in the air, you bettcha it’ll be noticed.  People (as in all of us) dig in our heels. We argue-against, if only to save face.


And that’s basically where the communication channels, between vegans and omnivores, stand at the moment. 

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