Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Avoiding self defence

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It’s easy to be gung-ho about being vegan, about taking the right course in life and being able to answer questions about nutrition and ethics and environment without hesitation. But if we are going to give answers we have to do it without shooting ourselves in the foot, without losing the listener. We’re in the advantaged position; we don’t need to exploit that. We know we can always hold our ground, whereas non-vegans don’t feel the same sort of confidence. And yet wanting to make some sort of response, they often speak before they think, and get panicked into aggression. Vegans are used to the no-brainers omnivores use to get out of a sticky argument. It’s vital that we don’t take offence; however we’re spoken to it’s water off a duck’s back, because:
1. We appreciate that they’re in a tight spot and don’t necessarily mean what they say, and
2. We know we always have a solid answer, held back sometimes, when things start getting aggressive.

Vegans have no trouble holding their own. That is, until the knuckle dusters come out, and then it’s best to run like hell!

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