Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Why trust or even talk to a vegan?


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Vegans try to mop up some of the damage they see about them. They try to dig everyone out of their ruts. But try as they might, they’re seldom trusted enough to be listened to. Their authority and advice is doubted. They are thought to be ridiculous and made to feel uncomfortable. But I like to think that we, being on a serious mission, are not so easily put off.
            We so much want to let people take themselves more seriously that we do everything possible to get people to follow our advice. We want them to reach their potential.
            Early in our lives all the attractions and illusions seem interesting and each of us chase them fearlessly. We start out with all the best intentions. We search for lifestyle improvements and self-improvement ... but we don’t always get what we expect. We might discover what we are NOT looking for – and we end up with delusion, disillusionment, disappointment and perhaps worst of all, dullness - but how do we avoid it?
            The most obvious uglinesses, being so prominent, seem to spoil life experience. It feels as if we are condemned to stay ‘in the dark’, never able to find the light-switch let alone the ‘light’. We become convinced that nothing will ever substantially change and that ‘it will never happen, for me’. We fear that we’ll miss-out. We eventually believe that improvement is unlikely and that no good can come from any life-changing decisions we make. We therefore reject ‘solutions’ because they seem unlikely to do us any good.
            We avoid theories such as veganism’s call to make personal change. We say, “Life’s hard enough without some vegan person telling me what I can and can’t eat, based on some animal-defending moral principle”. As for vegans themselves, they seem to have a mission to convert, and surely life’s hard enough without all that. And it’s this very attitude that stops people considering what vegans say. 
            Becoming ‘vegan’ is a prospect that horrifies most people. It sounds as if one wants to starve oneself to death or commit social suicide. And who needs that?
            Even if one has never heard of ‘veganism’, one’s attitude towards that sort of thinking is set in basic reasoning - perhaps we’ve already met vegans and rehearsed our replies to their oh-so-predictable-words. We’d do anything to put them off, to stop them telling us what they think is ‘right’, which in turn is intended to force us to defend our own lifestyle. And in doing that it’s likely we’ll make fools of ourselves.
            So, I’m putting things this way to emphasise a common question - Why trust a vegan? They always seem to try to make omnivores feel uncomfortable. You meet a vegan … and the whole ‘trust-a-vegan thing’ kicks in.
            Imagine what happens when someone first hears about vegans and ‘vegan food choices’. They fall to the ground in fits of hysterical laughter, and during their unstoppable mirth they promise to themself a life-long-loyalty to eating animals. 
            Meanwhile, we vegans are thinking to ourselves … “Huh, and you think it’s just about food choices? And then some!”
            All of these initial perceptions need to be fixed up before any sensible dialogue can take place. 

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