2009
If there’s something we want
to change, something big we’d like to see changing in our self and, by
extension, in our society, we need to know what we’re getting into.
Change can mean having to go
the long way round, being patient, thinking along the lines of “better to
prevent than cure”. Ideally change would be motivated by a sense of
great-improvements-to-come. It would be something we’d enjoy doing at the time.
And we’d enjoy it because we’d put in some pizzazz. We all like to be style-merchants
so if we are going to do something important we might as well do it in style.
If the way we change is optimistic, creative and enthusiastic, what can
possibly go wrong?
Often though we change out of
fearing-for-the-worst. We might feel a compulsion to change, gritting our teeth
and full of determination. The potential enjoyment of change is spoiled by
grumbling and procrastination. Changing certain types of habits is as daunting
as changing certain types of friends - they don’t like it. Habits feel
unchangeable. Even the intention-to-change depends on us being in the right
mood. But it isn’t always like that! In another sort of mood we might only
consider changing habits to save our own skin. (Like giving up red meat after
suffering a heart attack).
Whatever our mood or
motivation we should ask our self if we think change is attractive or a
turn-off? It depends on what it is that we’re changing, but say it’s one of the
classic habits, the addictive habit or a rigid attitude. Changing these habits
is hard despite the promise of good returns in the future.
In the vegan drive towards
‘humanising humans’ we have to sell the importance of change, but more
importantly we need to be absolutely clear about what we’re saying. Anyone can
understand the message we’re putting out but it’s the ‘how’ of saying it that
tips the balance - if it can be done firmly but gently it might just catch on.
If it does impact, it will because it’s in contrast to the usual
finger-wagging, evangelical, make-‘em-afraid approach.
The prospect of becoming a
more humane human should make change seem attractive – specifically, enjoying a
vegan-principled life which contrasts to the rut most people are in.
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