2070:
It’s a great privilege to
have something original and significant to say, that others mightn’t have heard
before. It’s also our responsibility not to be censorious since everything we
might say can shock and frighten people off. We need to weigh our words and not
let them fall too heavily. It’s not necessary to speak in high, piercing tones
or get hysterical about ‘saying it as we feel it’. Maybe under-stating our own
feelings, being a little inscrutable, holding ourselves in the background as it
were, makes it more difficult to be written off too soon. We need to keep them
guessing, to keep them focused on what we’re saying. Getting ‘the message’
across successfully may mean that we have to downplay our own emotional
involvement in the subject.
Talking ‘vegan’ isn’t about
converting omnivores, it’s surely about opening up discussion. It’s like a
parent explaining the facts of life to a teenager - it’s a delicate matter,
it’s potentially embarrassing, but the aim is surely to make sex easy to
discuss. If Mum or Dad are easy to talk to, then kids feel comfortable
discussing details of actual interest. It’s the same with Animal Rights, once
there’s ease-of-talking, then details can be dealt with along the way.
When someone allows us to
speak, unafraid of being embarrassed, they may listen … for a while. We don’t
have to say everything, there and then, as if there’ll never be another chance.
We don’t have to play all our best cards at once. And it follows that there is
a time to talk and a time not to.
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