Sunday, October 20, 2013

Vicious fighting or friendly stoushing

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For some of us the penny has dropped - we are not just plant-eaters or animal lovers, we are simply more empathetic to the plight of enslaved animals and more aware of the dangers of animal-based foods. That doesn’t necessarily mean we are nice people, but it does mean we’ve seen a pattern emerging; by dropping animal protein and generally cleaning-up our own act, we’ve been able to see the bigger picture.
            The satisfaction I get from seeing that makes me feel grateful, and I suspect my tendency to empathise springs from the gratitude of having that veil lifted. And even if I’m not a nice person, this realisation makes me a less cold-hearted one.
Moving on, past empathy, past compassion, I end up with a defined ‘interest’; this whole subject becomes more fascinating the more I get into it. It helps me understand this human-dominated world and it lets me study more closely the reasoning of people, who seem to me (without me ever letting them know it) quite lost.
But coming right back to the start of all this, to where your average omnivore starts to consider ‘compassion and empathy’ in terms of philosophy, it’s the start of a deeper awareness of other major global issues. And that, in turn, sensitises a person to the rationale behind vegan principle.
It’s not just about the food we eat but about applying ‘vegan principles’ to daily life. It affects us on so many different levels. It might start with shopping for different food items and clothing, and then painfully struggling with cravings and addictions, but as momentum builds, it has the effect of strengthening the mind; it inspires the emergence of responsibility for repairing damage. It even inspires a new identity for our self. So, if you move from animal-eating to eating solely plant-based foods, you begin to think more broadly, and that gives something else a chance to form - a new self-identity.
With less aggro comes less of a determination to be ‘right’, to win arguments at all costs, to avoid quarrelling, all of which are useful character traits for the peaceful defending of animals. Their eventual liberation will come about when we stop trying to apply pressure on people to change, and show that we respect their freedom to change when they are ready.
Whenever we touch on what people should and should not eat, it has the potential for sparking a fight. I’m a coward in a quarrel and try to find another way, any other way. I’m not saying to NOT bravely uphold one’s position, but we should NOT let the expression of our views deteriorate to the point where we’re fighting people over them. Apart from the rights of animals, veganism is also about the overall ethic of non-violence. So, whenever we clash, we lose some valuable ground. There’s a lot to lose if disagreements-of-opinion turn sour: things get sour when they get personal.

It’s true that in Animal Rights you can lose friends by the truckload if you’re confrontational. We can easily build a reputation for being evangelical. By being less aggressive, by being calm and informative and adopting a gentler way of going about things, we can make our point all the more effectively. It’s true that we do have urgent things to say. We know that the omnivore has a defence shield and we need to break through on some level. The question is, do we risk a fight over it? And if a fight breaks out how do we dampen the flames?

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