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This is what I wanted to do: establish a vegan lifestyle,
and when that was all in place I wanted
to get political. I was urgent to speed things up on the Animal Rights front. I
wanted to start a small revolution in my own corner of the world and then see
it spread. I wanted to go from a wannabe-vegan to vegan-warrior, ready to take
on the world. And yet ... this isn’t reality, is it?
However
passionate I am, I should bear in mind that I’m not a seasoned politician with
a tough exterior, ready to rip into adversaries. I’m just an ordinary person
who may be talking to other ordinary people. And what of my ‘adversaries’? I
mustn’t forget they’re sensitive free-willed beings too. They will decide
things for themselves, no matter what I say or how forcibly I say it. Once I
start actively advocating Animal Rights, it’s hard for me not to sound pushy
about it. It’s easy for me to forget that people can simply walk away from me.
However
good I think our ‘vegan’ idea is, it can’t be forced onto people. Any uninvited
contributions will seem like intrusions, even attacks. And if I aim to push my
way into peoples’ private space, when I say to them, as if asking an innocent
question, “You don’t still eat meat do you?”, I’m likely to get a rude shock.
Once my view is ‘fired’ at people (and they feel suitably uncomfortable)
they’re put off. And what is worse, they might even swear off the idea for
ever, and I obviously don’t want that.
1 comment:
I like that you are still sensitising people. The process of downplaying your values and judgements where they collide with others is very generous and gentle and self effacing. It must be agony.
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