603c
If empathy energises us, it also runs out. We want to
believe that things aren’t so bad and that if we have empathy it should be for
all the beautiful things and not for the ugly. But what a shallow attitude.
Empathy runs out. It fades even
as we’re wringing our hands with sympathy for the downtrodden. It needs feeding.
It needs some self discipline to keep it focused. Empathy is selflessness and
therefore can be hard work. And that hard work comes down to self-discipline.
It’s hard work at the best of times, even when self interest is at stake, let
alone when it goes beyond that. Should I eat that cream cake of not? And there
are millions of people who struggle to resist the temptation of smoking
cigarettes - we want something, we know we shouldn’t have it or even want it
and yet we’re not used to denying ourselves things. We all struggle with
‘little weaknesses’ but when it comes to consequences of lacking empathy, that’s
when we have to be strong, to build it up. Most empathy is needed when we’re
doing something for the sake of another.
I want to see people I know, whether
vegan or omnivore, friends or family, as purpose-driven strugglers. Amongst animal
activists, I like the ones who do hard work on themselves, who struggle to
understand the issues and the effect those issues have on people. And I don’t
like to think of this as a competition either. At whatever stage we’re at, some
not yet empathising with animals and still eating meat or wearing leather, and some
doing all the right things - none of us is better or worse than the other, it’s
just that we’re all at different stages of awareness. But, as I said, I like
the hard workers who take themselves seriously and think hardest about what
they’re doing. Amongst fellow activists I admire those who refuse to slacken
off. They watch the video footage that shows cases of animal cruelty. As hard
as it is to watch, it helps to feed empathy and resolve. It encourages us to
work hard for the cause, especially since we know that humans are more likely
than not to instigate further atrocities on animals or be ever more passive
about cruelty by being money-spending customers.
The important thing to know then,
is that cruelty and thoughtlessness are routine in our world. And in societies
all around the world, the level of empathy for animals is practically zero. The
treatment of animals, everywhere, is heartless. Farmers and their customers team
up to hurt countless billions of sentient beings, right now, as we speak. To
allow and support a society that does that, or for kind and intelligent people
to go along with all this without protest, this is the reality we are dealing
with. This is why empathy is so important, for us to be in constant touch with
these animals, and for us to be encouraging that empathetic connection in
people who are not aware yet.
Those horrible DVDs. I’ve watched
them and gone into shock over them. I’m squeamish but I stay watching, to
remind me of what’s happening behind those closed doors and to learn more about
the sort of word I live in. It’s not for pleasure I study them (anything but!),
it’s out of respect both for the victims and those who did the filming to keep
us all informed. And, of course, it’s important for any advocate to keep up
with the latest findings, to keep one’s finger on the pulse, as it were.
I imagine all vegans want to be
well-informed so they’re in the best position to educate others more
effectively. But I also want to get closer to the mind of the punter, to
remember who I’m talking to, and to bear in mind that these are often sensitive
people I’m speaking with. I need to keep reminding myself that we all have
different levels of empathy and we’re all at different stages in our awareness.