It’s a great privilege to have something original and significant to say, that others mightn’t have heard before. It’s also our responsibility not to be censorious since everything we could is capable of shocking and frightening people off.
“What’s veganism about?” We need to weigh our words and not let them fall too heavily. It’s not necessary to speak in high, piercing tones or get hysterical about saying it as we feel it. Maybe under-stating our own feelings, being a little inscrutable, holding ourselves in the background as it were, makes it more difficult to be written off too soon. We need to keep them guessing, to keep them focused on what we’re saying. Getting ‘the message’ across successfully means downplaying our own emotional involvement in the subject.
Talking ‘vegan’ isn’t about converting omnivores, it’s surely about opening up discussion. It’s like a parent explaining the facts of life to a teenager; it’s a delicate matter, it’s potentially embarrassing … but the aim is surely to make matters easy to discuss. If Mum or Dad are easy to talk to then kids feel comfortable discussing details of actual interest. It’s the same with Animal Rights, once there’s ease-of-talking then details can be dealt with.
When someone allows us to speak, unafraid of being embarrassed, they’ll listen. And when we are given an opportunity to speak, we don’t have to say everything there and then, as if there’ll never be another chance; we don’t have to play all our best cards at once.
Friday, September 3, 2010
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