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One of the greatest temptations for grown-ups, who are free
to make their own lifestyle choices, is to harden up. By becoming pragmatic and
avoiding introspection, they are free to break a few ethical rules. Once they
have children they imitate their parents’ values. If adults go astray they lead
their kids astray with them. With ten or twenty years of indoctrination, young
people might find it difficult to then adopt a truly compassionate personality
... and yet many do.
An instinct in some young people
questions their elders’ values; their fellow humans could be wrong about
something as fundamental as accepting violence done to animals for the sake of
eating tasty food. The problem, as I see it, is that humans develop and
entrench certain habits and then forget ever to question them.
Young people, however, have a
chance to make changes when they first move away from their parents’ dining
table. But theory is not practice, and this is a time when they probably need
most practical help, to give them enough confidence to change and establish new
eating habits relevant to a plant-based diet.
If they can’t find some useful
guidance it’s likely the ‘pressures of normality’ will weigh down on them too
heavily and they’ll revert. They’ll give up before they’ve even started.
The rewards for complying with
majority ‘taste’ are obvious, in that almost every shop on the High Street
offers irresistible attractions. With food alone there are too many food
normalities and addictive food habits to forego. Even if one is ready to take
up a vegan lifestyle, it might not be taken seriously because shops have such a
limited range of vegan foods, and if they do they’re expensive.
If you do take up vegan-living there’ll
be an immediate change to your whole life style. Some can handle that. They’ll
rise to the challenge. But the reality is that, if your decision to make a
radical change of diet is left too long, the social pressure to ‘settle down’
might leave no room for change. By one’s late twenties it might be too late.
Unless we make the move fairly early, soon after leaving parental control, it’s
unlikely our ‘habit-self’ will allow us to become vegetarian let alone vegan.
How great is the gulf, then,
between practising vegans and ‘non-vegans’? Probably enough to need a
collective fundamental attitude change to make changing feel less reckless ,
and for that, in order to hit the ground running, one would need to be free of
mind. We’d need to be about two years old, not chronologically but in a
person’s freshness of approach, so that the taking-up-of-new-ideas is
relatively painless.